Have your cake and eat it too. boy problem?

I would still keep in touch. I am on the same situation. But mine wasn't leaving the country unfortunetly. He went in a much worse place for a year:( but when I saw him again it bright us closer because we missed each other so much. We weren't together though. I just would have flings here and there nothin serious. You would be surprised how fast a year goes by. Good luck.