My friends and family think that my boyfriend is controlling.?

my friends and family think that my boyfriend of 6 months is too controlling. my mother refers to him as my "master" and my friends question why i put up with his behavior. i am 18 years old and her is 21. the reason they think he is controlling is because he doesn't like for me to wear shorts, any shirt other than a tee shirt, high heels, or makeup. Also, he told me that i cannot have a facebook or he will leave. I cannot have male contacts in my phone that are not family. he also gets angry with me when i spend too much time with my family. BUT he has never hit me, or hurt me intentionally. he does occasionally cover my mouth with his hand when im yelling, or when i try to walk away he grabs me and will not let go until i talk to him. a few times, he has grabbed my arms and pushed me down onto the couch or bed to try to keep me from leaving, and during a few arguments he has yelled and cursed at me, calling me a *****, whore, selfish, and a slut, but i may have deserved it. i know that this kind of behavior is bad, but i adore his family, and when its just us hanging out, everything is usually great. he talks about wanting to marry me and ive even caught him looking at engagement rings. he is not a bum, and a lot of people like him. he has a full time job, just graduated from college, and gets me anything i need. I do love him, very much, so i do not want to leave him. my excuse to my friends when they ask why i am still with him is because sometime you do things, or don't do things, because the person you love is more important than the other things. am i wrong?

What should I do about this. . . 10 points?

ok so on Thursday i told this boy i wanted to hang out with him on friday(this friday) and then he asked where? Then i said i dont know, where do u want to go. Then he said your the one suggested ,then I said ok how about hooters. Then he said naw im good on that. maybe we could chill . then i said do you mean your house? . then he said i dont know. but we'll c what happens. Then I said ok, let me know. This kid has confused me to the max. I not even sure if he really wants to hang out or not by the answers he is giving. I'm not sure if I should even ask him if we are still on for friday because i will feel like I am being clingy and i kind of feel like he should ask. He also didn't necessarily say he was going to get back to me because he said we'll see what happens and I don't know what that means. What should I do, should i ask him about it or should I let him say something? Do you think he even sound like he wants to hang out with me.? Also he is making plans to see other people but thats thursday and saturday. I know that he just got a job and he gets off at 8pm all the time,but if thats the reason that he doesn't know about friday, why can't he just say it. So what do you think??

Is THIS PLAYING HARD TO GET. ?

At a party. He was drunk, we kissed a little. At another party, I spent the night, he let me sleep on the same couch as him and we flirted hardcore. Yet he doesn't text me, invite me places, and only looks at me an says 'hi' when I see him. What do I do to catch his attention!!!

I think i might be like gay?? im a girl idk.. i sex with my bestfriend. We're both 15.?

I mean i've slept with plenty of guys, but i have never thought about girls like this before. But what had happened was i got drunk with my bestfriend and she asked me to make out with her. I told her no a couple times i mean i just didnt wanna do that, but then i just finally gave in and did it. and it was like great i guess. After i couldnt stop thinking about it and i just wanted to kiss her again, maybe more. And everytime i'd come over we'd go somewere and get drunk she'd kiss me but real quick nothing to big. Then she started doing it when we were sober and said it was like friendly. We started kinda flirty i guess like "i wanna **** you so bad" or "**** you" "when?" "right now" "later" but like play-fuly in front of our bf's for fun, then when we'd get drunk we'd say it but playin. But then i said it once and she said "you forreal"? and took of her shirt and i was like "naw i was kiddin." "She was like thats what i thot". Then one morning a couple weeks after we had like a bottle a Brandy we got from a friend that night and her parents wouldnt be there for most of the day so we decided to drink it. So we drank the whole thing and we went up stairs. She was like laying on her bed and she asked me if i'd ever do anything like to a girl? i was like "***** idontknow". so she took of her short and panties and she asked me to eat her out and i just did it. Then i started making out with her on top of her and went on from there.. we did like everything humanly possible. smh. So it was like awkward as hell after words so ended up just leaving. But after ahwhile i started to like look a girls that, like look them up and down and stuff. I didnt really get what was goin on at first then i was ahh shitt. And i started crushing on one of my friends, which was creepin me out. Then i went to some party kinda thing at my homeboys house and as usual there were girls makin out and ****. i usually didnt care but ii couldnt stop watching like damn and it just like turned me on so i went and slept with some ***** cuz i felt like i needed to get my mind off it, like i shouldnt be thinkin that way that i was. My family is very religious, they think its a sin to feel like that or even be like that, if i am i wouldnt tell them cuz i dont feel like dealing with there crap about it. i aint very religious like them i get God and all i just do stupid things. i could see my self with another girl relationship wise or just straight up sexual you no either way. I mean i think they fine! well some lol but i can see myself with guys to soo does that still make me gay? or what? sorry the things pretty long;

What are these piercings called?

When I was at busch gardens there was this girl and on her back where those "dimple" things are there were bliu studs.. what are they called and how do they get that pierced?

How do I tell this to my ex?

A while back when my ex and I were still together I cheated on her with another girl. We were just friends and I was spending the night at her house and her mom was in her room and we were in the living room. The power went out, we were on the couch and she was scared so I got close to her and I kissed her. We were together for about a month before I found out she was cheating on me. So I yelled at her pretty much calling her a slut. But now looking back at it I am the biggest f*cking hypocrite in the world. I wanna say I'm sorry but I don't have the guts to (she's also my ex). But the main ex is the one I cheated on. I wanna tell her. We're friends now. But I know she's pissed at me already when I told her I was an atheist. But I still wanna be her friend but this has been on my chest for years and I really wanna tell her. How do I tell her?

Poll : Are thick, curvy Ginger women with light facial hair attractive?

My choir teacher is a thick, curvy women with red hair and a small mustache. She hits on me but I be like hell naw I ain't tappin that.